found the send to folder!

Well, thanks to all the help here I found the send to folder.
It turned out to be a hidden folder. I went to look in documents and settings but the only folders I had were Administrator and All Users. After a couple of days looking around I was about ready to give up. Then I got the bright idea of of changing my show hidden folders and files setting and low and behold another folder popped up that said Default User. The send to menu is in that! I know this must sound very simple to most of you but for me it's quite an accomplishment. Thanks again for the help!
Lady Grey.

 

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